Quote Originally Posted by His_pita View Post
I was married for 18 years. Over the years problems within the marriage took their toll until I was very unhappy and wanting out. I didn't know how to get out however. I had no education, no money, and a child to consider. So I stayed and prayed.

I met my Joe online and fell crazy in love with him. We talked online for 10 months. During that time we made plans to be together. We each went through divorces and once they were final Joe came for me. We had never met face to face until the day he came to take me to the home he set up for us.

Yes, I cheated on my husband by talking to and falling in love with another man. For me it became cheating when my heart said yes to my Joe.

Would I do it again? Yes, I have guilt about the way it happened. But, I have never been happier than I am with this man.

Well I was not going to comment on this ---but it seems a lot of people feel online relationshops are cheating on their spouse ---

My feeling toward this as long as it is online only ---it is a fantasy ---no more than watching a move and having a fantasy about being the one that love is being made to --by the actor

or a man seeing a sexy woman walking down the street and wondering in his mind what she would be like in the sack.

Fantasy has always been a great escape for those who are unhappy in a relationship ---like reading romance novels -----

In the past I had this same problem ---a sub of mine ---got to feeling guilty that she was cheating on her husband ---and we had never met face to face.

there is nothing to feel guilty about ----adultry or cheating is physical ---just because you think about something does not make you guilty of it ---or I would be in prison for thinking about killing a lot of assholes ---lol

I am glad you met Joe and things worked out for you ---and you have nothing to ever feel guilty about----