Well I sure don't feel as if I'm cheating- my wife knows I talk to women in r/l & online- I always have.

She may not know every word of what I say, nor would she want to.

I imagine she'd be shocked by some of the things I say, perhaps she'd be hurt, but here's the thing: she knows I love her.

I've told her a million times I flirt with women, she's had them come up to her & tell her how much they admire me, or that I'd make a great father for their kids.

She's secure enough to know that I'm not going to have sex with anyone, never have, never will. She knows that I always come home to her.

She knows she's my #1. While I may have loved other women, I never one time thought of leaving her for them, nor did I promise to do so, or even hint that I would.

My wife also knows that if I never spoke to anyone but her, I'd be a dead boring husband- just like the other ones who go to the pub, watch TV & grunt at their wives.

I'm alive, thanks to my 'girls' I thank those of you who are on this forum every day.

Tojo