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Quote Originally Posted by My wife on the other hand has had many opportunities to participate in BDSM activities but doesn't want to.QUOTE

That seems to be something that I keep reading on this site lately.
The whole 'it's my wife's fault for not liking what I do' type thing.

It's okay to cheat because you have 'needs' and your significant other is not open minded enough to satisfy you?

That's exactly why I'm starting to think this place is not as non-judgemental as I thought when I first arrived. And why I find I'm spending less and less time here.
I believe you would benefit from reading over the threads and posts once more.
I cant see anything as judgemental as your post right here.