Quote Originally Posted by babygirlblue View Post
How would you act around your family and friends? How do you go out in public and be submissive with people thinking "abuse?"

I live in the d/s lifestyle, more so mentally than physically, but he does discipline me. I'm a little stubborn. None of my friends or siblings have relationships like mine. So how should I react if they ask "How can you let them do that to you?"

1.) I want to be treated as such. :
2.) I've always wanted it.
3.) They're probably right to treat me as such.

There have been times in public that I realize if what had occured had been around my family they would have verbally attacked my Dom harshly even though my Dom had every right to.

I just want ideas if you don't mind.
First, I would hope he wouldn't do anything in front of your friends or family that would cause a need for alarm.

My sister knows about my lifestyle, but other than that, I keep it quiet. It's too taboo for the public to know about. I mean, there are things your dom can do that vanillas will never suspect. I live in a conservative state, so it's important that my relationship is kind of hush, hush. Plus, with my work and Master's work..it's important that discresion is used.

Even though my sister knows of my lifestyle..she doesn't quiet approve. I don't tell her much..the people I talk to about my submission and what Master and I do are others of the lifestyle that do understand.. Through this site I have found many friends I have been able to talk to and share with. I hope you will be able to do the same.