Submission around family? friends even?

[Ozme52]

Why do we feel we need to be obvious about the kind of sex we practice. (Exhibitionist kinks aside...) No one expects a vanilla couple to reveal their bedroom practices.


Or to put it another way.... Why do lifestylers so often think they actually need to "come out of the dungeon closet..."

[gloombunny]

Why do we feel we need to be obvious about the kind of sex we practice. (Exhibitionist kinks aside...) No one expects a vanilla couple to reveal their bedroom practices.


Or to put it another way.... Why do lifestylers so often think they actually need to "come out of the dungeon closet..."

Because it's not just about sex. Why should people have to hide the kind of relationship they have? No one gets upset at vanilla people acting like they have a vanilla relationship.

[Ozme52]

Because it's not just about sex. Why should people have to hide the kind of relationship they have? No one gets upset at vanilla people acting like they have a vanilla relationship.

You make my point. They don't tell so you assume they're vanilla.