Quote Originally Posted by submissive sugar View Post
Well my situation is this .... my husband knows about my submissive side, has just recently told me he wants nothing to do with the lifestyle or Dominanting me *sighs* but knows I need to fullfill that part of myself be it online or otherwise ..... He just wants no knowledge what so ever of what is going on. I'm not sure how to handle this situation as of yet because it's still very new to me. But would that be considered cheating in your book .... because if lets say ... and that's a VERY big if I decided to persue (or be persued as the case may be) by a Dominant online with the possiblity of real life interaction my husband wouldn't know about it because He's asked it to be that way. I don't know if what I just said makes sense at all but I hope so.
sugar - there is two ways to look at the situation that you might encounter. First, would the interaction you have with a Dom include sex/intercourse/fucking? If it did, would you consider it cheating? If the submission you were going to partake in were not to include sex (the act of fucking) then you could more allow what you do to fall into the more grey area of if it were cheating or not.