D/s outside one's marriage

[Warbaby1943]

Nah, it's mostly just a semantics arguement. Like adultery and cheating. They are stricly speaking synonyms so it's down to how you personally define the words.

For me sharing love without your spouces knowledge is cheating, (and adultery). It's one thing if they're in on it, but if they aren't then well..... if you can't be 100% honest with your partner, then it isn't much of a relationship is it?

As I said, I'm not out to try to change anyone's mind and I won't have mine changed by any words I see here either.