Quote Originally Posted by phantasy_seeker View Post
No, Natalie, it isn't a contradiction. There are many aspects of personality that don't have any relation with BDSM, for me at least. Things such as bad habits, compulsions, etc. I really don't want to go into detail here, but it isn't about tiny 'imperfections' such as having smelly socks or not turning the toilet seat up.
Other way around. It's not that someone who satisfies me BDSM-wise won't have a bad personality, but rather that someone with a bad personality won't satisfy me BDSM-wise. Because it's not just about sex.