Most my friends aren't into BDSM, and since I don't plan on fucking them, it doesn't really matter. I make it no secret and everybody knows. My friends tend to send me any "perverted" porn they've stumbled across in the hopes that I'll like it. I always say thank you but... I think you need to be into the scene to really get it.

BDSM in relationships are critical for me though. I can't get a hard on if it's not D/s sex. Call me crazy, but I've been bent like this my whole life. Not that judgements made by my penis should be trusted at all times, but anyway.