Quote Originally Posted by tessa View Post
Hi, isabeau6. Welcome to our community.

It is indeed tragic when people lie. Especially when the lie is wrapped up into something we hold so close and dear.

So what does one do? Choose to believe in everyone or choose to believe in no one. Both are extremes and both won't serve you very well.

Widget up there gave some great links for you to go through and all the members who have posted for you here have given you excellent advice. And even though we don't know you very well, I hope you can tell we genuinely care.

It may take years (I know, that sucks), but finding the very right person can make the world shift in the right direction. In my opinion, it's best to take the time up front rather than suffer the heartache after.

All the best to you!

tessa
thank you for the welcome and for the advice...yes Widget's links are very helpful...i appreciate this..and wow i do believe you all care...sighs..i know i'm rather a sucker..i tend to believe everything...and it's like how do i know they aren't just saying what i wish to hear?

isabeau xoxo