a question for other subs/slaves or anyone for that matter..

[Rhabbi]

This is always a tough question to answer, even in real life. A good player can fool almost everybody, but lie PT Barnum once said, "You can't fool alll of the people alll of the time." My best advice is to bring in your friends. If they do not like him, or he does not want you around them, avoid him. that is the one acid test I would rely on. Your friends could be wrong about him, but if they all feel the same way, watch out. And even if only one of them thinks you are wrong, find out if they are right.

[isabeau6]

This is always a tough question to answer, even in real life. A good player can fool almost everybody, but lie PT Barnum once said, "You can't fool alll of the people alll of the time." My best advice is to bring in your friends. If they do not like him, or he does not want you around them, avoid him. that is the one acid test I would rely on. Your friends could be wrong about him, but if they all feel the same way, watch out. And even if only one of them thinks you are wrong, find out if they are right.

every single friend of mine did not like him...and tried to warn me against him..however i thought i knew him best..i talked to him every day on the phone, not they..he had this bullying presence online..but not with me usually..i did have a few friends who liked him..but i wonder now if they just liked me and wanted me to be happy...thank you for that advice...i'm thinking i should be gullible..not isabeau...

isabeau