Is there ever a reason to push hard limits? If they're indeed hard limits, are they to be pushed? I'm not looking to argue or debate. I'm just really curious about this idea.
HELL NO! A hard limit is a definite "do NOT go there." I only have a few which include NO scat, NO minors, NO watersports and NO piercing/branding/scarring. Of course, I have many more soft limits which are things that maybe I just don't think I would enjoy or things that I know I don't enjoy but might do anyway, like....paddles. *wince* These are the ones that can be pushed. In trying some of these, take for instance....paddles, it could quite possibly be discovered that it is more of a hard limit than a soft limit, meaning I hate it and don't ever want to do it again.