Quote Originally Posted by Flaming-Redhead View Post
No, it really doesn't. It's just sad that someone would rather put something down as a NO instead of a MAYBE simple due to embarressment. I have a few absolute "no thank you" type activities, but I have very many "maybe" and "not-my-favorite-but-will-do-for-you" type activities. An example of an extreme case for me is paddles. I didn't list it as a hard limit (still don't) even though I apparently have a phobia of them. We have discovered that I am so terrified of paddles that my eyes will well up with tears at the mere mention of being paddled. I have a very good reason for this. However, I have stated that if VoodooMan wishes to pursue this, he may do so. He has decided that, at least for now, it is in my best interest not to.
This is the way I feel about a lot of Mishka's limits that she wants to rescind. I may do so, but for now I am leaving them alone.