tessa,
I recommend taking the questionaire every six months or any time there has been a break through. Life is not set in stone neither are some hard limits. I still go through mine often. Sometimes it is the sub and our relationship that causes it.

Funny but knowing her real hard limits will bhange mine. If she has a hard limit on something I think of as normal usage or common practice then I have to decide whether she is worth the loss of that activity. Funny I don't think I ever found that I couldn't find a substitute and be happy with her. For an example I love chains and handcuffs and if I found that either or both was a really a hard limit for her I would have put them away and learned more about ropes etc.

hope this helps

oh one quick statement I don't like maybes as a choice in hard limits. It is why mine has 2 answers and 8 choices on how to rate it