Pushing Hard Limits

[jeanne]

And occassionally just go through the list and talk about the reasons behind those things that are limits. Some of them may disappear with a negotiated common definition.

I for example, had a hard limit against hard beatings until my submissive told me what she meant when she said she was curious.

Agreement on definition is always good - sometimes each person's idea of what something means is very different. (Although I still find talking about it embarrassing, it's getting a little easier.)


jeanne