LOL Amber... not at ya... just amused with my thoughts as I read your post.

The semantics are so subtle. Everything you said sounds good... and yet... my sub understands that everything we do is indeed for me... her submission gives her pleasure in doing... for me.

She gets by giving. Ask her though, and I have no doubt she'd tell you I was attentive to her needs and very attuned to her.

Yes. The semantics are indeed subtle.