Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
My semantic hang-up in this conversation would be that I insist on the perspective that the D/s relationship revolves around the needs of the Dom/me. That may be because I see the pendulum swung too far the other way in all too many online-only pairings.

I guess it depends whether you think words can only describe thoughts... or if you think they can perhaps drive thoughts.
We're on the same page as far as "semantics" go now, but I will ply you with another question if you don't mind humoring me? (I am a curious girl, which I think is half the reason one of Sir's first purchases for me was a gag... ) How do you mean, "because I see the pendulum swung too far the other way in all too many online-only pairings?" Is it just online, or do you see that in the real life relationships of others as well?

Oh, and I think words can describe AND drive.