romantic sap or not but patience dear.
your time will come just as it did for me.
I was looking for a sub for a few years but with patience I happened to find one, or she found me.
It took a few years and well we dont exactly have any munches or things like that here either except for the occational fetish party/club but those mostly consist of showoffs and those that just loves to play dressup.

good luck to you