Coming out of the Sub Closet

[Slutsie]

Thank you Sir_Russell, I think this is the best advice I've had yet. We both really wanted to watch the Secretary together - it was on tv lately, but we ended up missing it unfortunatly. I'll have to buy it, it's one of my favourite films anyway!

Thank you in particular for your fourth piece of advice, I will try this tonight and see how he reacts!

[Polaris]

Can't expect of men to stay awake once they're done with having their way with you, huh? Glad to read that you two had fun, and that everything went so fine! Now all you have to do is wait for him to get addicted

On a sidenote, "it doesn't turn me on more than vanilla sex" does not necessarily mean it doesn't turn me on more than vanilla sex. I have a few things I'll swear before any jury I don't enjoy too much, but it's not true nonetheless. It's just me being embarassed to admit it, so I try working around admitting it (or simply draw a blanket over my head, which most of the time is answer enough anyway)

Anyway, I hope that things continue to be as promising as they started out!

[silver9]

This has been so useful; I've just joined the forums and I'm having the same problem.

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and sex is amazing and he seems to be into a bit of kink; but its not enough for me. He's not at all shy, but I am and I feel like if I went into it too much it'd freak him out that I was being so bold, as it's really out of character.

Things in our relationship are a bit less vanilla; when we get into any fooling around he gets me say I'm a 'naughty slut' or something like that, but when I said about handcuffs when we were talking he changed the topic, and he's never researched anything at all BDSM as far as I can tell, but I never know with him, he always surprises me with things, and sometimes he'll be really kinky and other times totally vanilla

I love him so much though, and he's amazing to me; just thought I'd put in my experience though hehe

Ohhh... and Slutsie hope things work out for you, sounds like things are going good, gives me hope and nice to see another Brit here!

[Isabella King]

I enjoyed reading this thread - I wonder how Slutsie's getting on and do we have a bit of an English contingent gathering here?