Could you go back?

[sidhewolf]

So if tomorrow your dom, or domme which ever the case maybe decided they no longer wanted a d/s relationship would you be able to conduct a vanilla relationship with them?

I ask simply because this is what happened to me. I had been collared to my husband for a very long time when one day he woke up and decided he no longer wanted. We still have kinky sex. I'm trying my best, but I have a deep seeded resentment against him for doing this. I feel betrayed. I'm just not sure if I can live like this and be truly happy. Perhaps love and devotion isn't enough? Are these natural feelings you can imagine you would experience in the same situation or am I being selfish only looking at my own needs?

This happened to me with First *M*, though not the same way or for the same reasons. Just one day He decided it was best to Release me. It was Very traumatic for me. Several months later and after Collaring with Master now, First *M* tried to come and Take me back. Firstly, I was Collared with Someone else. And that was Dis-Respectful. But, He had already lost my Trust before that, by making a decision that so obviously did not Consider what was best for me. I wouldn't have gone back even if there hadn't been Master now. Trust was broken.

I don't think you are "being selfish" to consider your own needs and feelings in this. Apparently you must, as they are not being considered for you.

<Huggs>.

Respectfully~SidheWolf