
Originally Posted by
Warbaby1943
I really can't answer from a sub's perspective but I can certainly answer from a human point of view. My answer would be I would hope that your marriage was based more on love for each other than on BDSM activities. If that is not the case it may have been doomed from the start. Sorry to be so blunt but I do believe that love has to be first and foremost in any marriage for it to have even a fighting chance to survive all of today's temptations.