I asked this question once before, but in a different context.
I couldn't fathom how people could sit there and tell others that if you can't have a D/s relationship with your significant other than you should forget about what you want and stay in the relationship if you love them.
I believe that people who say this haven't been there and don't know what it feels like.

I honestly don't think I would want to go back and if I had the opportunity to go forward I would take it in a second.

I live a small existance of D/s within my own relationship, but there are times when I want more and yes it does lead to being resentful and bitter at times.


If you are feeling bitter and resentful about it, trust me the feelings don't go away all that easily, and you won't be able to move foward at all.