Where are the straight dommes.

[stripedangel]

It's pretty much acknowledged that within the entire community, online and off, that dommes are the rarest of creatures...

Whether most are lesbians or not... yeah... any woman who doesn't desparately want me... yeah, she must be a lesbian. LOL

Uh, yeah, cuz who can resist a fellow who knows that cute lil lion (rrroarrrrr)!?!

......and the tinman! Would you get their autographs for me, please?

Dommes are very distinguished, and the ones that i've dealt with online tend to be very patient, yet very sharp in ther mind, looks, speech, etc. i haven't met one in real life...but i can say that in the chats, i've been hit up for PM by just as many Dommes as i have Doms.

i'm sorry, did i miss something in this post that was crappy? i took Ozme's post as complementary....Dommes are different indeed! They seem to believe in the total experience. i could be wrong, though Master would never believe it, but i think that being a "rare creature" makes you special.

i'm just slightly too tall to be considered a midgit at 4ft 9.5in tall. i look Master right square between the nipples when i'm trying not to break my neck, LOL. This makes me special. i like it.......

[cadence]

I know I haven't met too many people in the BDSM scence in Ontario, I've met a few from Toronto, but most seem to be hidden away somewhere, I think you have to start really looking yourself, I wouldn't wait for them to come to you.

As for Dommes, they do exist in Toronto, the ones I do know (not personally) are bisexual, and are poly.

Are you looking in other forums? Or is this the first place you have been so far?

[Ozme52]

Uh, yeah, cuz who can resist a fellow who knows that cute lil lion (rrroarrrrr)!?!

......and the tinman! Would you get their autographs for me, please?

But not the scarecrow? Oh! I get it, virile lion, man of metal... but not the guy with the stuffing in his pants.

[gloombunny]

Damn! What am I doing wrong that I'm not meeting any of the plentiful dominant lesbians?

[stripedangel]

But not the scarecrow? Oh! I get it, virile lion, man of metal... but not the guy with the stuffing in his pants.

OK, ozme, sorry.....can i have your autograph too?

fetishdj, you made a good point. from that, i would suggest simply posting a personal ad and hanging out in the chats. Ask questions...just general in the beginning..."does anyone come in here who..."

W/we are all eager to help, but we're very careful about the info we give out about one another. Ask the right questions and you may get the answers that you desire. you may run into some who knows someone who isn't online atm...

Be patient, it's amazing what sort of opportunities will fall into your lap!