A dangerous relationship?

[manda]

I have given rope monkey my response to HIS question, my opinions on what he stated and asked. I wonder how my relations came under attack. I did not ask for the opinions of others on what I do nor do I care to answer any further questions, because quite frankly it is no one's business. I have found a happy medium for all involved and yes all parties are aware of the other. End of story.

[Ragoczy]

I have given rope monkey my response to HIS question, my opinions on what he stated and asked. I wonder how my relations came under attack. I did not ask for the opinions of others on what I do nor do I care to answer any further questions, because quite frankly it is no one's business. I have found a happy medium for all involved and yes all parties are aware of the other. End of story.

You offered it up in response to the original questioner who was looking for a solution. Since your original post wasn't clear that all parties are aware -- in fact, the impression I got was that they weren't -- then it's natural that those who object to that would question it. I'm sure no one was intending to offend you, but you did respond to a controversial topic -- it's not reasonable to expect that people will ignore your comment.

[SnickerKitten]

I have given rope monkey my response to HIS question, my opinions on what he stated and asked. I wonder how my relations came under attack. I did not ask for the opinions of others on what I do nor do I care to answer any further questions, because quite frankly it is no one's business. I have found a happy medium for all involved and yes all parties are aware of the other. End of story.

The important point being that all parties are aware. In that case, it's wonderful that you've found a solution that works to fulfill everyone's needs. The only issue that has come under attack is HIDING a relationship from a significant other. I think making it clear that all parties are aware is an important aspect of answering rope monkey's question.

-kitten

[DowntownAmber]

I have given rope monkey my response to HIS question, my opinions on what he stated and asked. I wonder how my relations came under attack. I did not ask for the opinions of others on what I do nor do I care to answer any further questions, because quite frankly it is no one's business. I have found a happy medium for all involved and yes all parties are aware of the other. End of story.

This is a public forum designed for discussion amongst members of what is posted here. You posted. We discussed. *shrugs* Seems reasonable.

I would say it's a stretch to say your relations came under attack as all parties involved in your situation are aware of each other, and no one that responded to you seems to have an issue with that. It's the situations where deception is involved that are being advised against, and all topics thereof do have relevance to the OP. You cleared your post up, we all nodded and went, "oh, okay. We read it differently." No malice in the exchange at all.