I have a question, J-Go in relation to your last statement. Whilst I think the sub should be kept in the loop, I wonder why you feel YOU should be introducing yourself to another sub's Dom? Isn't it up to the sub to keep her Dom in the "loop" as well and should she not be the one to do the introductions?

It just seems to me that if you should introduce yourself prior to the sub mentioning you to her Dom, this could cause a problem.

As far as "old school" is concerned, I did not respond as I have no idea what "old school" is other than that of the "gay" BDSM movement. So this whole thread is enlightening to me. Thanks