This is pretty much where I stand also.
I like men to act like men and woman to act like women.
I think a big reason why people are not sure about their gender identities is because this day and age people are taught not to conform to a gender. Not to mention all the split marriages where either mother or father isn't present and the child may not be getting that male or female role model.
*I believe there are always exceptions of course, where something chemically really IS more male/female in one's mind or body.
No offense meant to anyone, this is just my opinion.