Quote Originally Posted by Pearlgem View Post
What's a 'date'?
Here's my report, as promised:

My first date in 23+ years. Dinner. A nice meal, a nice restaurant. Even though he is a Dom and I am a sub, the majority of the conversation was standard 'getting to know you' stuff. We did talk a little bit about who we each are in the context of D/s, because after all, the goal was twofold - to get acquainted and see if we liked each other and to find out if we are a possible D/s 'match'. It was very pleasant and enjoyable, ending with a simple kiss on the cheek and small hug, and plans to have dinner again to further our acquaintance and talk more specifically about our D/s wants/needs.

No pressure, no uncomfortable 'clinch' at the end...I had a good time.