but if its a club then you're CONFORMING to something... lol

I mean that in all teasing btw, i enjoy refusing to conform as well :-D

All joking aside,

I've been following this thread, and am surprised to see that SO many switches have had poor experiences with Doms and/or subs. I've had the gays-judging-bis experiences. Especially as a female college student bisexual (in my area) since the stereotype is you're just doing it to be cool/sexy etc. Lots of comments like "Is no one straight anymore???"

But I thought switching made lots of sense. There isn't a so-called "natural" orientation for that, and I can totally understand feeling differently about different people. After all, sub's don't feel subby for every person they meet. It reminds me of that K something scale for sexuality, where almost no one is 0,5 or 10 (completely straight, bi or gay). It seems logical that D/s would be the same way?

This is interesting food for thought, and also very sad.