Quote Originally Posted by sillypony View Post
But I thought switching made lots of sense. There isn't a so-called "natural" orientation for that, and I can totally understand feeling differently about different people. After all, sub's don't feel subby for every person they meet.
Hmm, I'm not a switch; I've identified myself as sub and am comfortable with that, but your remark here, sp, really made me think. Most, if not all, of the subs on here would probably agree with it. I certainly can. I have my usual, everyday behaviour, and then my sub yearnings for one man and one man only. So at least I travel along the spectrum of 'normal' to sub.
I have been following the 'what the hell is switching all about and why do they hate us' threads with interest, trying to understand what at first seems quite alien to me. But perhaps it's just that I haven't allowed myself to see my own (theoretical) possibilities.

To the switches out there, is sp's a useful example to help understand the switching mindset?