I have submissive tendencies, even being a Dom. The thing about this is that I am not submissive. I don't feel like Im quite saying this right. I am a sadist. And Im a Dominant. I have thought I might be able to switch once...and then I realized the dislike I had to be controlled. This is what makes me a Dominant. I refuse to, and maybe I will give my sub oral. It is because I want to. For whatever reason. I may ask her opinion and treat her as a near equal and such...moderatly submissive in the way I talk to her. But this is because I want to know etc. Trying not to sound pompous, but its all about Me. I choose to act that way and I acknowledge the tendencies I have when I do act in that way. But, because I can act submissive doesn't mean that I am less of a Dominant.

I know women and Im sure that you've heard of them, who are in complete control of their daily life and can't suffer to be anything less than controlled. I know other people who are submissive or Dominant in every walk of life.

I would rather say that every person has submissive and Dominant sides to them, because every person has duality. Now it is simply what you want that takes this into account. Do you want to take control or be controlled? Both? This is, personaly, what makes someone a Dom, a sub, or a switch. Do you want to be one or the other?

You are submissive correct? How do you know you aren't a switch? Because I am quite sure that at some points you act and are Dominant, in some way shape or form. Its how you feel about it that decides what you are, personaly.