Quote Originally Posted by voxelectronica View Post
He hasn't requested that I don't visit sites. It's more... I've never had to hide anything about myself. I've never had to justify it either. Most people (for whatever reason) take me as I am.

The biggest thing is that I don't want to have sex. I had surgery on my no no bits about a year ago and since then have not really wanted to engage in sex especially not vanilla.
If it were me, I'd try telling him in simple terms, the truth. If he were friend enough to let you stay then he should be friend enough to accept that where he might go fishing for the weekend, you might like to go get your ass whipped until you cant sit down.

As far as no strings...if you have separate beds, then it means no strings. If you are however sharing a bed, thats kind of like saying light this cigarette but dont smoke it.

With regard to your 'no no' bits...I can put you in touch with some organisations who will help you deal with your anxiety. PM me if you would like some info.