isn't it funny how these threads all came up at once? the thread "Male submissives " is about the same thing I think. I think that it is wonderfull and correct to ask your dom for certain things, and to set limits and boundaries, but to expect the Dom/me to gratify you the way you want when you want- well, it is called Domination for a reason. and take it from me- Two doms, no matter how much they try or want to, can't have that much fun.it's a long story- I'll try to write a blog- but my exwife and I are both dom.

So it's real. how would you guys deal with it?

I see it as an excuse to break out the whip....