Topping from the Bottom?

[leo9]

I find it funny everyone talks about communication, however being able to communicate during a scene seems to be regarded as some form of nastiness on the submissives part.

The hardest thing to teach my slaves is that keeping information from me - about their feelings, about their needs - is disobedience. A good slave tells hir Master the things he needs to know to get the best from hir.

[StormKat]

The hardest thing to teach my slaves is that keeping information from me - about their feelings, about their needs - is disobedience. A good slave tells hir Master the things he needs to know to get the best from hir.

This scenario was a sticking point for me with the dom who introduced me to this stuff. I've always been a total rules lawyer, always looking for the out or playing the angle in any situation, controlling my responses to lead where I wanted. Once I fell into this dom/sub thing, that included what info I shared with him. I'd answer his questions, never lying, but perhaps shading what I said. He caught onto my natural inclination pretty quickly though, and began requiring me to fully & completely disclose everything. Needless to say, it was a rough adjustment, certainly part of our dominance struggle, but I eventually got used to giving him access to all of my thoughts...