Quote Originally Posted by DJade View Post
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. But one thing is certain. It is the sub who holds the control then and not the dom/me.
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On many lists this would cause a storm of reactions from Real Doms who rule naturally by their inborn alpha nature and dominant charisma which causes the subs to fall helplessly to their knees with their knickers all wet..

But you are right as I see it, integrity is so important - for all relationships really. And patience and trust and growth does not happen overnight.