Non 24/7

[Ozme52]

Service is service. Whether it is instructing him to negotiate on your behalf buying the car or sucking your toes.

Your attitude and perception that he is serving your needs and desires is all you need to make it work.

[Wiscoman]

Service is service. Whether it is instructing him to negotiate on your behalf buying the car or sucking your toes.

Your attitude and perception that he is serving your needs and desires is all you need to make it work.

This is what I was thinking. Being Dom doesn't come with superpowers -- you're not automatically good at everything. He's going to be better than you at a lot of things and that's just a fact.

If it bothers him, just tell him that he's finally good for something other than loosening the caps on pickle jars for you. That ought to knock him down a peg.

On the 24/7 thing, that's something you're going to have to work out for yourselves. Do it for a day, a week, a month, whatever and see how it works for both of you. Then maybe you can tweak it a bit and find a happy medium.

[Guera]

Service is service. Whether it is instructing him to negotiate on your behalf buying the car or sucking your toes.

Your attitude and perception that he is serving your needs and desires is all you need to make it work.

I agree with this in principle, but it is not what I want all the time. I think the problem (which IDCD may have nailed) is that I really don't want to go through every big decision in a F/m role. But... I think that the switching, even to F/M (as opposed to f/M) is starting to hurt. But maybe .. ack, the vacillating is starting already.