Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
Service is service. Whether it is instructing him to negotiate on your behalf buying the car or sucking your toes.

Your attitude and perception that he is serving your needs and desires is all you need to make it work.
I agree with this in principle, but it is not what I want all the time. I think the problem (which IDCD may have nailed) is that I really don't want to go through every big decision in a F/m role. But... I think that the switching, even to F/M (as opposed to f/M) is starting to hurt. But maybe .. ack, the vacillating is starting already.