Male submissives

[IAN 2411]

I really like this post. I am very new to this forum, and was at first surprised that there was a lack of female dommes in the dom looking for subs thread.

It is my personal belief that life is all about balance. In my public life, due to the profession I have chosen, I have to be a very dominate, go getting personality. I find it very exhausting and have to have some me time (for a better term). In my last relationship I had a girlfriend that was very dominate in the bedroom but somewhat submissive in public life. This is how I found out how enjoyable it was to give some one else control.

Now I have decided to take the journey to discover this side of my life.

I know I have my fantasies, through reading the stories in the library. But it is my belief that to fully enjoy my submissive side I have to give up my needs to someone else. I hope that this website will help me do this.

VicSub don’t spend the best part of your life looking for something that might not be there. Fem Domme come in all ways and they do not wear a lable, because most dont know they are Domme until their chance comes along. There are many Fem Domme out there in the world but to find the right one is the crux of the matter. My wife/Mistress was not one before we got married, it started off mild and i allowed her to go to the lengths she did, and it was that reason my marraige lasted. I was playing a game of submissive with her, but unintentionally she was being Dominant, she was getting her buz at the same time i was getting mine, it was a real game that neither of us realised we were playing. There is more to a Fem Domme/ male sub than beating a man into the ground, and at the end of the day, there is a far stronger loyalty to each other than in a vanilla maraige.

Regards ian 2411

[thir]

most dont know they are Domme until their chance comes along.
Regards ian 2411

Why would you think that?