Sorry I cannot seem to work out how the quote thingy works. In response to ian 2411's remark about me giving up and my wifes battles keeping the marriage going. I suppose that could be the case but it was her that walked out leaving two young children behind. The comment about me wanting a Mistress or another mate, now that is a good question which I had better look at again. However it is not all about handing over power I would need to respect her.

Being a taxi driver 16+ hours a day I meet plenty who are only to keen to show how much more superior than me they are, mostly it is women. None like that, male or female, have had my respect. The reverse is true of those who show some concern about me waiting long into the early hours for them, or are willing to explain why their job has kept both of out to three or four in the morning.

Any way thank you for your comments, which I will have to go away and think about.