Male submissives

[denuseri]

Posting an add in the personals section or having a pretty profile is not the only or best way to attract a female dominant.

You need way more exposure than that.

Posting frequently and meaningfully in a wide variaty of places in the forums as well as participating in an adult and respectful manner in chat can help a lot more.

Attending functions within your local scene is also a good idea.

And as ian mentioned, you never know when you will find a woman out there who may feel willing to fill your needs.

[spank_my_]

Thanks Denuseri,

Your answer makes perfect sense.

however, it is a little daunting for a newbie to post in the forums and to participate in chat. I'm trying and so far had a wonderful welcome from everyone involved.

As i said - i'm still hopeful, but it seems to be a steeper uphill battle for male subs than female, so not surprisingly, fewer of us find what we are looking for here.

Don't misunderstand me - this is not a complaint, just an honest newbie male sub response to the question that was asked to start the thread.

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[IAN 2411]

Thanks Denuseri,

Your answer makes perfect sense.

however, it is a little daunting for a newbie to post in the forums and to participate in chat. I'm trying and so far had a wonderful welcome from everyone involved.

As i said - i'm still hopeful, but it seems to be a steeper uphill battle for male subs than female, so not surprisingly, fewer of us find what we are looking for here.

Don't misunderstand me - this is not a complaint, just an honest newbie male sub response to the question that was asked to start the thread.

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It might be a little daunting, but you are not going to find what you’re looking for by doing very little or nothing at all. Read the forums and post in the ones that you think you can learn from, or help. Go into chat and sit back and learn from others that are talking fact, just because you are there it does not mean you have to speak more that polite welcomes until you feel easy to join in. The hill is steep and not just for male subs, but life is full of compromising and you might have to do that to go forward. Denuseri has given you some good advice by telling you to get exposure of the correct kind, because all that a couple of posts will get you is forgotten, and you will be cast aside like the hundreds before you. Be remembered and talked about for the correct reasons. There is also real life to think about, there are what your looking for out in the world that are not on this site, and they are looking for you just the same as you are looking for them.

Regards ian 2411