Quote Originally Posted by Dryhill View Post
I married someone with a stronger character than me but constantly tried to be "head of the marriage/family"
I believe this is fighting for control between two strong minds, and was inevitable that something was going to break, and I also think it has very little to do with Domination or submissiveness.


Quote Originally Posted by Dryhill View Post
When I started to let my wife take the lead I felt happier with life but by then too much harm had been done to our relationship.
This statement does not mean you are a submissive either, are you sure that your brain never resigned to the fact that you were in a losing battle, and it felt more comfortable just giving up for peace. The fact that your marriage broke up could also be down to the fact that you did give up, and it was the continues battles with your wife that was keeping it alive. Is it really a Mistress that you are looking for, or another mate that is strong in mind that you would freely hand over power to? If this is the case then i advise you to be very careful, because sometimes people get more that they wish for.

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