kind of funny how this discussion continued on even after I left the forum for awhile I had gotten into a relationship and been distracted by that and I definitely know all about trying to win over a Domme now. It seems tricky at times being submissive yet having the flirty nature. My Mistress would respond in equal to how submissive you where which was hard because I am kind of reactive as well but I think after awhile I learned a little bit of what to say and how to say it to make Her happy. Yet not seem too forward.