Quote Originally Posted by ian 2411 View Post
What your saying is that you won’t go that extra half mile, have you ever thought in your wildest dreams that it is you that might not be turning him on. Maybe he is to frightened of you to tell you what his real needs are, he might just have a kink that you don’t know about. Why is it always the man that is fucked up with sex, it is never the woman, is it because they are the sexual elite? I think not.

Before you go pointing the finger at me, i was married to my Mistress for thirty years and if she was not satisfied a long time before me then i went without for a long time, and i only ever did it once. We had four girls and they came first, and they came before me in my Mistresses eyes, and that is how it should be.
My kids come first always. It's for their sake I stay with their dad. IMO I'm in this marriage until the youngest is 18, and that's a long way away. Hopefully after that, we can part ways amicably. Despite what might be coming across, I am a non-selfish person who puts others first 99.9% of the time. No one "on the outside" would think there is anything off with my relationship. I realize putting things out there for complete strangers opens one up for attack; again, it was just something on my mind that I shared at that moment in time, and have no regrets doing.

I WISH I weren't turning him on. I WISH he would see what I see, and listen to what i SAY (because trust me, I HAVE voiced my feelings to him); and at the very least I wish we could be on the same page and call a spade a spade. We can be "co-parents" and have a platonic relationship. Trust me when i say, there IS someone better for him out there. Better suited for him, anyway.

Oh, and I very rarely point fingers. Or judge. Your life is yours to live, do what you want.