I suppose at this stage of the game I should know what "non vanilla" is, but have never heard it referred to as chocolate. Although I do like to think that if most people are vanilla, I'm likely chocolate with cinnamon.

Anywho.....what I'm wondering is if there are other subs out there who find themselves balancing the two, in whatever form. Say you're in a relationship with someone who just doesn't "get it" and then you accidentally find yourself in cahoots with someone who totally and completely does.

Anyone? I'm in an impossible situation, and just wondering if anyone can relate.