Quote Originally Posted by openyoureyes View Post
Please, please, PLEASE, be careful with this. If you read my post, one of my closest friends had this happen to him. His parents agreed to stay together until he moved out of the house and when they did part ways, it was not pretty. My friend felt betrayed and was horrified when his parents told him it was something they'd planned. He felt like his whole childhood was a lie and he strongly resented them for it. Even now, 4 years later, he will not speak to his father at all. He also refuses to ever get married, he says because of this experience.

This is a very fragile issue and I wish you only the best of luck dealing with this, but please consider every possibility as I hate to see what happened to my friend happen to someone else.
I have to agree with [openyoureyes] on that because if there is something wrong he should be open with it. That is what Maraige is all about trust and loyalty, and if he cannot trust you enough to tell you his problems then he should not expect your loyalty. you have to put your cards on the table and tell him the bottom line. If he still gives you a daft look then you tell him you have needs and if he cannot give you them you will get it elsewhere. maybe it he that wants to be Dommed?

I wish you all the luck in the world [nawteeone] because whatever you choose is not going to be easy.

Regards ian2411