Religion and M/s relasionship

[denuseri]

Perhaps all you need is a change of perspective:

We all technically belong to God do we not? Even those of us who do not expouse a belief in a surpreme deity or a creator technically belong to God (since disbelief or lack thereof does nothing to diminish said dieties power really).

And we all technically belong in one way or another to a wide variety of both familial and social catagories of possession in addition to the overall all encompassing "belonging to God" etc. Such as John is a Mason, Paul is a Priest, Thomas is a Baptist, Roger is my brother, Lora is my friend etc.

So...Yes, I, you, my cat, the entire universe and everything in it; does belong to God, but we all also belong to others in a way as well, for instance: I also belong (catagorically or universally by definition) to my family, my country, my city, my proffession, my spouse (who in this case also happens to be my "owner"),etc.

I hope that analogy kind of helps you view your situation in a different light.

[Thorne]

We all technically belong to God do we not? Even those of us who do not expouse a belief in a surpreme deity or a creator technically belong to God (since disbelief or lack thereof does nothing to diminish said dieties power really).

Wow! I felt that one all the way over here! But I'll behave. I just want to point out how much REAL power Odin, and Zeus, and Apollo, and Venus, and Osiris still have, despite not having any real believers. Just sayin'!

As for the OP, I think each of us has to deal with our beliefs (or lack of beliefs) in our own way. Assuming the Judeo/Christian God (which is what most Americans mean when they speak of God) I would have a hard time reconciling the conflict between God and any kind of non-vanilla sexual activities. Submission to your husband, though, is consistent with His teachings.