Wow! I felt that one all the way over here! But I'll behave. I just want to point out how much REAL power Odin, and Zeus, and Apollo, and Venus, and Osiris still have, despite not having any real believers. Just sayin'!
As for the OP, I think each of us has to deal with our beliefs (or lack of beliefs) in our own way. Assuming the Judeo/Christian God (which is what most Americans mean when they speak of God) I would have a hard time reconciling the conflict between God and any kind of non-vanilla sexual activities. Submission to your husband, though, is consistent with His teachings.