Well everyone has thier opinion as they say.........lol
<<is a slave, more so a kajira
which is far beyound any "doormat" around.
If I top from the bottom it is only becuase my owner allows it.
I know full well his will can crush mine easily. Yet I also know he wants a spirited girl not some foot rest that would easily boor him.
That being said, it is also my duty to push, we are in a way at war my Owner and I.
Even though I am forced to yield in the end everytime it doesnt mean the struggle for dominance ends the first time I am put on my knees, oh nooo, thats is only the begining.
Say what you want about topping from the bottom. I believe it is a natural part of the poccess.
It is my humble experienced opinion the only ones bitching about it are the not so dominant people that like to call themselves as such even though they really are not.
A weak dominant often doesnt know how to handle a real challenge, and often times a lazy one that is also weak , is the only kind that desires a "doormat" as opposed to any challenge at all.
'"There is a difference' laughed Hassan, 'between the pride of a free woman and the pride of the slave girl. The pride of a free woman is the pride of a woman who feels herself to be the equal of a man.
The pride of the slave girl is the pride of the girl who knows that no other woman is the equal of herself.' " Tribesmen of Gor, page 333
When love beckons to you, follow him,Though his ways are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you yield to him, Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound thee
KAHLIL GIBRAN, The Prophet
denuseri, I always love reading your posts. Informative, well thought out, and colorful... oh the color.
lol. We are sexually exclusive, so if one of us had anything like bloody diarrhea or anything similar, that would become obvious in time.
Moreover, in order to do that, I have him go potty before, and then take a long, nice bath, because in an un-washed condition, I have major issues with the... um... smell. *shudders again*
Sorry, double post.
I didn't know this had become an infectious diseases class lol.
Arria, thank you for such a detailed post. My dom is just getting into dominating someone, and often I find I'm the one calling the shots. It's a little frustrating but I'm hopeful he can learn how to contain my wild streak.
I for one believe that topping from the bottom is possible and usually in the case where the "bottom" isn't really trying to be submissive, they want the allure of being submissive without actually having to listen. So they manipulate the scene into what they by being disobedient or however they might otherwise manipulate their "master". To some degree I chalk it up to inexperience on one side and an unclear definition of what they actually want on the other.
Pain is in the mind...and so am I. What does that say about me?
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