Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post

We have a "don't ask-don't tell" semi-open marriage. It's worked for 30+ years.

That means I personally, can have an online relationship and can be in-the-flesh (itf) without feeling guilty about it. The hard part is finding the right partner who is either in the same situation or can live within the boundaries of my situation, as I'm determined to maintain both lifestyles.
That's fantastic that you have come to that agreement with your wife. I have broached the subject with my husband, but he is absolutely not interested. Which is a shame, because now I'm doing it behind his back, which is not in my nature at all. The ideal situation for us would be a semi-open marriage where we are both free to explore other relationships but we stay together for the kids. We could probably end up being good friends if he was open minded enough to try it.