Echoing Mr. Dom--you've got to talk! Find out why things have slowed, find out what he wants and what he might be afraid of (it can be scary to have that kind of power if you're not a natural Top, reassure him that this [and him] is what you want).

Also, maybe write out a script of a fantansy or two (leaving options open for the Top to play with) of what you'd like to experience. That might take some of the 'work' out it while still being what you need. Besides, writing down your fantasies is always hot, right?

ER