Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post
As I am sure I have stated else where I practice orgasm control for mine. She is told very early in the relationship even before I decide whether I will accept her gift, that she can not climax without my direct permission. Yes that is all inclusive. She is to call me if I am not there to grant or deny permission. I know that this training allows growth in many different areas.

I have a question about the sub asking permission to orgasm.
I understand the training and the reasoning of orgasm control, so I also understand the reasoning behind asking permission.
I was just curious as to when permission is granted or when it is denied. Is it part of a certain process, or is it determined by the mood of the Dominant, or how well a sub can beg for it.

I personally do not like begging, but then again I am not used to it, and find it to be a bit embarassing. I would not even want to ask if I could have an orgasm, I would be nervous to do so, I would probably feel that I had failed something somehow.

Sorry if I hijacked this thread a bit.